Take your chance to get on with your manager. The first two steps.
Can’t you get along with your manager? Do you have an
impression that you are from different planets or you speak a
language unknown to each other?
Before you write your manager off and get rid of him from your
circle of trust, it’s worth to look back again and think of
whether you have done everything to enable and help in effective
At this point, the question can pop up:
Is it really me, a subordinate, who should care about
relationships and good cooperation between me and my manager?
Isn’t it my manager’s role?
On the one hand you are right. Your manager should have the best
knowledge on team building, relationships and his employees’
motivation. But on the other hand, what if he doesn’t and
doesn’t support you enough? Who will lose? Your motivation
will dip and you will do the minimum at work. Your manager does not
use the full potential of his employees, and in the worst situation
he will lose good staff. Ultimately, you both lose.
Humans are only humans. They make mistakes and are not always
trained in the roles they play.
So before you write off your manager, it is worth rethinking what
you could do to improve your relationship.
Below are two steps that opened my eyes and changed my approach to
managers. They helped me build better relationships and enhance our
#1 Freed from hierarchical thinking
Once I heard a conversation of a parent with a child on the bus:
Child: Mom, what is a manager?
Mom: A manager is a person who keeps an eye on people to oversee
whether they work quickly.
Child: So this is the person who rules?
We’ve been growing up in a hierarchical world. Since our
childhood we were taught to listen to our parents, then teachers and
lecturers. Similarly, when we start our professional life,
subconsciously we feel the difference in different levels in the
organizational structure. According to stereotypes, the manager has
power, makes decisions and says what to do. You shouldn’t
discuss too much with the manager, just execute what they expect
from us. Ultimately this is the person who will evaluate our
performance and decide on our salary.
If we stick to those stereotypes it will be even impossible to
imagine equal cooperation with your manager, based on developing
solutions together and pursuing a win-win direction.
If you put yourself in the position that the manager is always
right, it will be so. Unfortunately, even when the best manager
turns up at his team’s meeting, that causes an immediate
change in the team’s dynamics. The loose exchange of thoughts
calm down, employees listen to their manager’s opinion and do
not undermine it (their honest comments will be unearthed over
coffee after the meeting).
Freedom from the hierarchy in our minds is the foundation to build
an honest relationship and cooperate in a partnership.
Let’s try to look at the manager-employee relationship from
a different perspective:
If a partnership between manager and employee were possible, how
would it be?
What can you do to get it?
I could complain that I have my one on one meeting with my manager
only once a quarter. What’s worse, this meeting feels more
like a performance evaluation. There is no space for discussion on
my future role, how I could grow in this company or how my manager
would like to support me with my goals. I still have no idea if
there is a reasonable career path for me.
In partnership, how would you want this cooperation to look
I would like to see my manager interested in what I’m doing,
just like we are genuinely interested in our friends. I would love
to hear his advice about my growth in the company.
What can you do to get it?
I can schedule regular one on one meetings to establish a better
relationship and say what is important to me to be motivated at
work. Start describing my issues at hand and ask for some advice to
broaden my perspective. After some meetings I can ask about my
strengths and then talk about how we can use them in the company to
You don’t need permission from your manager to go ahead and
take care of your needs. You can take over the initiatives, be more
proactive and take the first step. What’s more, like any other
person, you have the right to give feedback to your manager
(positive feedback is always welcome!). You can suggest lunch
together, show what motivates you and what your ambitions are and
discuss how you can get ahead within your company.
Your manager is only human, and like everyone, he is not perfect and
doesn’t know everything. By working together and complementing
each other, you are able to gain better results where you both will
#2 Understanding your manager’s perspectives
We want our manager to take our opinion into account, actively
listen to us and support whatever we do. The perfect manager is the
one, who quickly understands us and is an advocate of our brilliant
ideas and propositions. And if he doesn’t, we easily judge
that he doesn’t understand, is imcopetent and isn’t
influential enough to change anything.
How often do you show the empathy on the level you expect from
your manager? Do you know how his last week was at work? What has
been his biggest success or how could you help him?
Judging is simple, but before you do it, spend some time to get to
know the context and the world he lives in. Understand what problems
and adversities he faces every day. Start listening to him and
become honestly interested in his story. Reveal new facts and let
yourself be truly amazed by him. Understand what causes the
manager’s behavior to help unconditionally later.
The manager is lonely in his role. He has to convey the higher
management decisions that he may not always influence or even agree
with. Because he cares about his team’s motivation he very
often tries to be a protective shield for them. On the flipside, he
spends time with team members to listen to their frustrations that
he sometimes is not able to address (this is double frustration for
him!). He does his best to find the proper career path to have
motivated employees and sometimes this requires long negotiation
with other departments or different stakeholders to make it happen.
It’s not a piece of cake to make everyone happy. And finally
the manager often has no place where he can pour out his
dissatisfaction to mentally regenerate and continue to work with
The partnership is about supporting and helping each other become
a better human and growing in our roles.
Good relationships are not built within two or three weeks. This is
a long process and requires a lot of openness on both sides.
What other options do you have?
If you see that you don’t get on with your manager then:
you can change your job or manager (the easy way to solve the
you can just do nothing. You will do the minimum of your duties to
receive your salary (obviously becoming demotivated at work), or
you can strive to do something to improve your relationships.
Start being proactive in working with your manager and creating
the relationship with your manager that will be the pure
So why don’t you just give it a go?
You don’t lose anything by trying the third option. The
remaining options will always be there.
In this article I will share four examples of the same Sprint
Goal but expressed in different ways.
Imagine a cross-functional, cross-component Scrum Team
experienced in the automotive industry who is working on an
autonomous self-driving car project. Imagine that the team's
Product Owner is on a business trip and can't joint the Sprint
Planning with the development team. Now luckily the PO crafted
an input Sprint Goal for the Dev Team so the developers can be
aligned on what's most important.
First let's stop and ask ourselves what is a Sprint Goal?
According to the Scrum Guide:
"The Sprint Goal is an objective set for the Sprint that can be
met through the implementation of Product Backlog. It provides
guidance to the Development Team on
it is building the Increment. It is created during the Sprint
Planning meeting. The Sprint Goal gives the Development Team
regarding the functionality implemented within the Sprint. The
selected Product Backlog items deliver one coherent function,
which can be the Sprint Goal. The Sprint Goal can be any other
coherence that causes the Development Team to
rather than on separate initiatives."
So when I think about a great Sprint Goal I think about one that
uncovers hidden assumptions and supports further discussion on
"what problem are we really trying to solve?". To grasp this it
($ Businesses goal: What does our organization get out of the
HOW? & WHO?
(Impact: Who and how will be able to do something
differently thanks to our solution?)
(Scope: What can we accomplish during one sprint that
can move us towards the desired impact and outcome?)
The good the bad and the ugly!
So here are four examples of the same sprint goal but visualized
and expressed in different ways.
A list of tasks to do in Jira as a Sprint Goal! Take a look at
the Sprint Goal listed below and search for the WHY, HOW, WHO
& WHAT. If you're lucky you could maybe determine what to do
but definitely not why. No comments, unfortunately this is most
The Sprint Goal in a form of Image! Nobody said that a Sprint
Goal should be in the form of text. Remember the Agile
"We are uncovering better ways of developing software by doing
it and helping others do it."
experiment be creative! The lack of clarification of what
exactly is the Sprint Goal in the Scrum Guide does not limit
you, but is actually releasing. Take a look on the Sprint Goal
listed below and search for the WHY, HOW, WHO & WHAT.
The Sprint Goal in a form of a User Story Map
! Why not make the sprint goal two or even three dimensional.
Start not from the solution but the problem that we are trying
to solve. Tell the story of the user. This can really free up
the creativity and result in innovation in your teams. Take a
look on the Sprint Goal listed below and search for the WHY,
HOW, WHO & WHAT.
The IMPACT MAKER:
The Sprint Goal in a form of an Impact Map
(My favorite)! A great way to uncover hidden assumptions
and the WHY, HOW, WHO & WHAT is an Impact Map! So why not to
use it to visualize a sprint goal. Additional benefit is that it
stimulates the team on planning for delivering early value
. Take a look on the Sprint Goal listed below and search for the
WHY, HOW, WHO & WHAT.
The benefits of a great Sprint Goal:
Better collaboration and teamwork
Focus on value
Each sprint is engaging
Enforce decision making and ownership
Gives a reason to celebrate
Flexibility and creativity
Feeling of purpose and autonomy
Stimulates discussion on possible solutions
As humans by nature, when faced with a problem we immediately
focus on the solution (especially when we are being paid for
that). A written down and expressed in an engaging way Sprint
Goal can not only stimulate the discussion on "what problem are
we really trying to solve?", but also help recall our reasoning
from days before we started the implementation. An always
visible Sprint Goal not only reminds us on why we are doing
something but challenges decisions made in the past and provokes
the search for simpler and more impactful solutions on daily
A great scrum team constantly works on improving scrum
artifacts. Defining a good sprint goal is a great way to achieve
that. Also experimenting with different techniques for
expressing the sprint goal can be helpful in introducing those
also for other activities like backlog refinements or innovation
sessions (which is sometimes hard especially for teams that are
not used to look for different possible options to achieve
specific outcomes). This could be for example a first step to
try out a User Story Map as a Sprint Backlog or an Impact Map as
a Product Backlog.
Is it worth to invest in a consistent organizational culture or it
is just a new corpo-fad?
What do we gain by having a consistent organizational culture?
What do we lose if nobody takes care of it? How this impacts
Organizational culture has recently become a very fashionable topic.
More and more companies define their values and expect that their
employees will bring them to life by presenting them in day in and
day out duties. The values are posted on the walls, in email
footers, hashtags, and the staff can be rewarded for the best value
representation across the whole company. All of those actions are
undertaken to emphasize what is most important from a company
perspective and to promote company’s cultural expectations.
What is the correlation between the culture promoted by a company
and how people behave?
Is a consistent organizational culture important at all?
Over the last few days, I had the chance to observe the
“interesting” organizational culture in … one of
the Polish, small-town hospitals. My husband had an accident in the
mountains and was taken to a hospital, I didn’t know. He had
to wait for surgery for some days. Apart from the stress caused by
his accident and surgery, I didn’t anticipate feeling any
other emotions at the hospital. Unfortunately, from the moment I
took the first step into this place, I felt extensive uncertainty
and lack of confidence. There was only one question in my head
— “what is going on here?” All my emotions were
evoked by the following observables:
Between the hospital buildings there was prominent and clear
information “smoking forbidden within the hospital’s
area” and just 3 meters further along there was a huge
ashtray surrounded by smokers.
Similar information in the hospital’s restroom didn’t
deter people from smoking and people were even smoking in the
While shopping at 22:30 in a grocery store about 300 meters away
from the hospital, I met a patient with a plaster on his leg. I
was the only person surprised by this.
There was information in the hospital ward with a ban on staying
after 10 PM. Of course, I was visiting my husband at this time and
no one even suggested that I should leave.
My impression after the first visit was that I missed something and
I didn’t know what I should know. I had no idea what the rules
were and how real organizational culture looked like in this place.
Let’s analyze the situation I observed in this hospital based
on my favorite model of organizational culture described by
Ideal organization — Edgar Schein’s organizational
Schein assumes that there are three levels of organizational
The first level called artifacts refers to what
we can observe, to tangible evidence how the culture looks,
especially in terms of relationship, behaviours and physical aspects
such as inner amenities, the office design etc.
-The second level talks about
norms, rules and values that employees follow.
Some of them can be visible because the company wants to highlight
them by displaying them on posters or handing the guide rules to new
employees. You should be able to understand less visible norms by
asking “why” about everything that puzzles you or just
needs an explanation.
The deepest, third level is the
tacit and shared assumptions the company and its
employees have. This level is completely invisible and is the
foundation of organizational culture and is based on our inner
convictions that are taken for granted
In an ideal world, in an ideal company, organizational culture is
consistent at all levels. The company’s and our beliefs are
reflected in company policies and values, which are then followed by
employees. You should easily be able to observe that people’s
day-to-day behaviours and values promoted by the company are
consistent. Tacit assumptions cause and drive people’s
Reality — organizational culture model in the hospital.
From the first glance it was clearly visible that noticeable
behaviours were non-compliance with the rules promoted by the
hospital (a contradiction between the first and second level).
Employees and patients did not follow the rules that were posted and
even generally accepted standards. If employees do not follow the
company’s values and beliefs, it is a sign that they must be
based on other values and beliefs.
Based on the Edgar Schein organizational culture model, from the
second level there is a split into norms and values promoted by the
organization and those guided by the employees. Going a step
further, you can see that the same situation is tacit and shared
assumptions. The company and employees are guided by various
convictions and beliefs on which they build their own values and
norms. In this situation, we can find two types of cultures expected
by the company and one that is actually alive among employees.
I think most of us have experienced the latter case, working for a
company that promotes culture and values on posters, but employees
do not understand and do not identify with them. Sometimes it could
be perceived even as high-management’s propaganda. But on the
flip side, if you ask the employees about rules, everyone will tell
you what to do and how to behave in such an environment and
unfortunately such guidance can be far away from the company’s
So, is it worth to invest in creating a consistent organizational
What do we lose if we don’t have a coherent organizational
culture in the company?
Motivation — if we do not understand why
the organization has picked certain values we will lose context
and will not understand decisions and actions undertaken by higher
management. In the long run, if decisions are contradictory to our
values, this will cause a sense that our voice and opinion is
meaningless and without any impact. Going further this entails a
drop of motivation and our engagement at work.
Time and energy — that we need to devote
to understand how to behave in the company and what caused those
rules (tacit assumptions). While I have been in the hospital for 3
hours every day for two weeks I have assumed some hypothesis that
is underlying the causes of behaviours I have observed. But
understanding the culture and its foundations would take several
Confidence — when you see the
contradiction between how people behave and how they should behave
based on company rules or social norms we tend to take a step back
in order to observe and understand the culture and borders better.
To see and define which rules are valid to follow. Even if I
disagree internally with smoking in a hospital bed, I did not
react, because everyone, and especially the hospital staff
considered such behaviour to be normal.
What do we gain by having the consistent organizational culture?
Safety — in a place where we have clear,
understandable values or rules and we can easily notice that
people’s actions are driven by them, we will trust and feel
safe. If I saw such coherence in the hospital, it would be much
easier for me to believe that the hospital’s staff will do
their best during my husband’s surgery.
A sense of belonging — we identify with
the organization because our beliefs and values are similar. For
that to happen we have to understand the employer’s
perspective — dig deeper and see real, meaningful reasons
why those values are so crucial. If we were following them what
benefits we would provide to the company, employees and our
customers. This is the only way to find a profound meaning and
roots of the organizational culture to identify with it.
Work with a harmony with personal values
— If the company has a consistent culture, we can explain it
to potential future candidates. We can give them the possibility
to make a rational decision whether such a culture is in line with
their personal values and whether they want to work in such a
Is it really worth to build a coherent organizational culture?
Definitely yes . If the hospital I visited, had
such coherence, I would feel safe and I would trust nurses and
doctors that my husband is in good hands. We should aim for this
feeling for our employees in our organizations because they just
simply deserve it.
In this article
and myself will share the approach that we together with
developed to recruit Scrum Masters using Competency-based
recruitment process, Barry Overeem’s 8 stances of Scrum
Master, and Behavioral Driven Development.
Before you go any further you must know that we won't share our
recruitment process questions :) Instead, we will tell you how to
develop your own process.
The topic of recruitment of a Scrum Master isn’t something
new. But when we faced the challenge to recruit new scrum masters in
our company we knew there is space for improvements and that we want
to create our own process. This conclusion emerged from our previous
experience in being recruited for a Scrum Master position and from
the approach on how does HR recruit experienced leaders.
The main flood in mainstream approach:
Most companies recruit scrum masters asking theoretical questions
(like in the Agile Imposters 2.0 38 questions
) or by performing hypothetical case studies scenarios during the
interview meeting and asking the recruited person to imagine a
situation and then looking for particular candidate behaviors (like
in Case Studies for Conflict Resolution: A key element in civil
Although these methods bring value and can be helpful they introduce
the following downsides:
The answers on theoretical questions can be memorized and learned
upfront with no practical experience whatsoever. So we have no
clue if the candidate will really do the job.
The hypothetical case-study scenarios during the interview
don’t guarantee that the candidate will act in the same way
in real life when faced with real situation involving people she
will be working with. Additionally, in that approach we assume in
advance that the best way on how to solve problems from the
hypothetical scenarios is Our Way -which is simply not true (even
if our solution worked in a certain situation, "You could not step
twice into the same river"- Heraclitus).
What did we do differently:
We wanted to get true Scrum Masters. We wanted to get experienced
people proven in field of Scrum and Agile. In order to achieve this
we decided to create our Scrum Master's recruitment process in line
with the Competency-based recruitment approach
Why do we call it BDD? :)
What we changed in the process is that we didn't start from building
question first, but instead we started by defining expected
In order to do so we created a competency map
based on Barry Overeem’s “The 8 Stances of a Scrum
Master” described at Scrum.org
where he defines the Scrum Master as a Servant Leader,
Facilitator, Coach, Manager, Mentor, Teacher, Impediment Remover,
and Change Agent.
We knew what competencies we are looking for but we didn't knew what
behaviors will define those competencies. We started to ask
ourselves what behaviors do best define e.g a great facilitator who
is a neutral person accepted by the group with no decision making,
equipped with facilitation tools, helping the group identify
potential solutions and improving the process of decision making,
increasing the efficiency of meetings and following through with
Surprisingly this was the hardest part. But when we finally defined
the expected behaviors it was really easy to form proper questions
around them. We used the Funnel
tools for that because they are great for checking the
candidates practical experience.
Facilitator - one of the expected behaviors: encourages people in
the group to take an active part
Give an example of a situation where you encourage people in the
group to take an active part?
What was the group's challenge?
What approach did you choose? What actions did you undertake?
What was the result?
This way we designed a checklist of questions that helped us
evaluate our candidates. In addition, we solved another problem.
Before our checklist, we evaluated every candidate with different
questions relaying on our intuition. Now, we have one candidate
profile build around what's most important for us, allowing us to
continuously improve our process. Furthermore, these questions and
behaviors have a great use for annual performance reviews.
Our experience in practice:
It turned out quite difficult to go through all the questions for
all the 8 stances in a reasonable time. Luckily, some questions
verified more then one stance at a time. We ordered the questions to
maximize the amount of expected behaviors shared in one candidate's
answer. TIP: prioritize the questions by the potential they share to
expose the candidate's behaviors most.
To create your own recruitment process go through these steps:
Create a competency map for the Scrum Master Position in your
Where do you really want to work? Orange vs. Green vs. Teal
On average, people spend 90,000 hours at work
. It's over 10 years of life! The average working time in one
company is about 4 years, but for the first employer many people
decide to stay longer. That's why it's important to find the company
that suits you best from the very beginning. How to accomplish this
without comparison and reference point? What questions should you
ask a potential employer during a recruitment interview to get to
know them better?
In this article you will find answers to the following questions:
What distinguishes some organizations from others?
What impact can these differences have on your career and life?
How do you know, when recruiting, if an organization is right for
First let's ask a question: How can we group organizations? A
scientist Frederic Laloux has created a great organization
classification placing them in successive generations going through
the history of humankind.
Let's name the consecutive organization generations: RED:
anarchistic like the mafia, AMBER: commanding like the army, public
schools, and the Catholic Church, ORANGE: controlling like
multinational companies, investment banks; GREEN: caring &
paternalistic like culture driven organizations; TEAL: cellular
& releasing like network organizations
Orange vs. Green vs. Teal
As for now, in 2020 most IT companies operate either within the
paradigm. Let's take a closer look and compare them in the
So an orange organization is like a machine with a lot of
controlling process and process imposed roles. People are seen like
cogs, specialized to perform a specific task. Everybody must stay
busy and resource management in excel sheets is a common associate
when running out projects. The focus is on building the products.
Green organization, on the other hand, declares "We are family" and
emphasize that the key to success are passionate people who are able
to learn what's needed to deliver value. Teams are main building
blocks and the principle is to build long-living teams. When
optimizing green organization are more focused on delivering early
value (instead of keeping everybody busy). Green organization
concentrates on developing people, and a great product is only a
Teal organizations recognize that each of us is unique. And that the
key is not to learn what is most needed but to discover your own
talent and path, then follow it. Building blocks are small cellular
groups discovering new ways of working and re-inviting the
in orange, green and teal organization:
Managers in orange organization focus on governing constraints e.g.
by creating process and telling people what to do. They use a
combination of reward and punishment to induce a desired behavior
(carrot and stick approach). The result is an over application of
control approaches and not the recognition that not all systems are
ordered. This makes people break rules to do their job well. Another
common pattern is that in most cases burned out "cogs" (specialists
that couldn't handle the pressure) are promoted to leaders
positions, which has a huge negative impact on the company culture
and employee performance
Leaders in green organization are much more focused on creating a
safe environment so people inside can demonstrate unsafe behavior.
When a conflict arises, it can be immediately resolved by the
. They take on the role of servant leaders who specify enabling
constraints (e.g. by facilitating groups and coaching people to
grow). The result is you get coherence with huge variation around
it. That effectively allows locally valid solutions to emerge. The
teams creates their own process and adjust it as needed. Decisions
are pushed to the lowest level. Key leader competencies are soft
role is to consistently hold the space and prevent people of
going back into old habits of creating processes and hierarchy
structures. Remind people of deeper assumptions by saying "This is
not how we do things here". Teal leaders invite people to make
decisions by their own. They also create context necessary to make
those decisions. Teal is far away from anarchy and this is reflected
in a range of practices that these organizations do differently.
Teal deals with areas such as
: decision making, organizational structure, staff functions,
meetings, conflict management, project management, dismissal,
strategy, recruitment, performance and change management, planning
and budgets, targets and marketing in completely different
Authority in orange, green and teal:
Since orange organizations introduce meritocracy, knowledge is the
key to promotion. This results in tree things: "I don't want to
share my knowledge with others", "I don't want to show that I
doesn't know something", "I'm better off showing others’
incompetence". Unfortunately that attitude results in a culture of
fear and low transparency
Green is more about peace and harmony, which can sometime result in
not making difficult but key decisions. However, green is a paradigm
that promotes culture of helpfulness which is the key to effective
. It's also easier to introduce more transparency which is a crucial
aspect in order to react fast. Green is where Agile grows best
Teal is all about unleashing a human's full potential, that's why
authority is build on wholeness. You work with people who can show
up at work as their true selves. Not only ego but their deeper self.
Not only masculine side but also feminine. Not only rational but
also emotional, intuitive and even spiritual
How to determine if the organization you are recruiting to is
orange green or teal?
Now a crucial question would be how to determine the paradigm in
with a particular organizations operates. Here are listed 23
you should ask while recruiting to a particular organization
to determine its paradigm. Those questions are a result of a
brainstorming session performed on two specialists forums in Poland
("Trener Trenerowi Trenerem"
trainers forum, and "Wszyscy jesteśmy turkusowi"
teal organization forum). It's not that you have to ask all
those questions. Some are even a little controversial and dangerous
to ask. What's important is that you can find the answers on that
questions while in a recruitment process without even asking them
(just as side conversation). Another possibility is to ask friends
who are currently working for this company or find someone from this
company on LinkedIn and talk to them about it.
How are hiring and firing decisions made in your company?
Someone at the top of the organization's pyramid (based on budget
and the need for specialists)
A leader who works with people on a daily basis often as a coach
(based on matching the culture of the organization and the team)
People who are working directly with candidate/that person make
What are your company values?
No values / there are values but the recruiter doesn't
remember them / there are a lot of them and they are contradictory
/ cynicism in conversation about values
The values are not contradictory / the leader tells what is
hidden under them / the CEO defines them
They are not clearly defined / are fluid and live their own life /
people in the organization talk a lot about what the organization
is guided by
If I wanted to introduce a new tool in the workplace that would
require investments and training of people, what would have to
happen for me to succeed?
You must convince HiPPO (highest paid person's opinion)
You must involve others in the decision making (Consensus /
Everyone can do this (after consultation with the specialists in
How are decisions made to start and stop a project?
Someone at the top of the organization's pyramid makes the
A business person supporting communications with the client,
stakeholders and the development team makes the decision
People who are involved in creating the product make the decision
Who onboard employees on their tasks?
Team Leader / Group Manager
Person from the team to which the candidate came (volunteer)
"Sherpa people" (colleagues responsible for your development)
How often as a manager do you ask employees for feedback on your
Never / Only when the HR department expects it
Regularly during 1v1 / we have 360
I ask for feedback people I work with on daily basis
What is your company proud of?
We are proud of our product / technology we use
We are proud that we are all family here
We are proud of how we are changing the world
What is the company's policy when it comes to payment transparency
and salary raise?
Lack of disclosure. Manager by recognition and budget
Pay grade levels according to seniority. Known to everyone.
Periodic evaluation with the Leader
Everyone knows how much someone earns. If you think you deserve a
raise, you just communicate it within the organization
Give an example for which you would punish an employee?
Employee does not perform his tasks
Employee does not consult ideas / is a bad team player
Employee Does not fit our way of working
What do you value most about your boss?
He gives 120% / "defends our group" / "can get budget when
needed" / "reacts when there are fires"
That she express the interest both in my success and well
being. Her feedback that can challenge you directly but at the
same time carries personal care for your person
What are the example team names in your organization?
Give an example for which you (the organization) would reward an
He does overtime / does his job best
He is pro-active / helps others
He looks for what he is best at and does it
What is the procedure when the employee has nothing to do?
We assign tasks to him / transfer him to another project
Division of tasks is a matter of the team / let them use
their free time for learning (if it's ok for the team)
The employee chooses what's most valuable in his opinion and does
What do you value most about your subordinates?
That they do their job well
That they are growing (developing themselves)
What is the structure of your organization?
How often will I work on tasks with people outside my team?
It happens / people work on several projects simultaneously
Very rarely / the team works on its joint goal / we value
teamwork and long-lived teams
What job titles do the people I'll will be working with have?
POSITIONS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE PROCESS (Product Manager,
Error Manager, Quality Assurance...) [many different positions]
Only Software Developers (who have different competences
needed to deliver working product) and supporting roles, e.g. Line
Manager, Product Owner, HR [few positions]
No job titles (only pro forma) everyone has different roles the
job titles are not important
Who during the recruitment asks technical questions?
Your supervisor / asks both technical questions and checks
A person from the team ask technical questions, the
supervisor checks experience & cultural fit
A team member asks technical questions and checks experience. The
last stage is one work day with the team
How would you describe the HR department in your company?
Opinions without facts / Language we vs. them / cynicism
Language of facts / puzzled by the question / listing of HR
tasks with ease
No HR department / Sourcing only
How are conflict situations resolved between people in the company?
Your supervisor talks to the supervisor of the person you
are in conflict with (mediation / escalation)
"As your supervisor, I will support you so that you can
resolve the conflict directly with the person concerned"
We have a dedicated framework / way to resolve conflict in our
What is the company's CEO focused on?
Makes key decisions
Crafts the organizational culture / talks a lot about values
Makes sure that the organization remains teal, invites people to
make decisions and is the face of the company
[job description in the job offer]
Extensive; many responsibilities; listed processes and
Short list of responsibilities; Company values listed
includes in the description that: "you apply to teal organization"
What is the access policy for tools and code base
Very restricted, only process roles has rights
Everybody that works on code has access to codebase and
Everybody chosses their tools
It's not that green is better than orange, and teal than green. It's
about what do you really looking for yourself. I know people that
feels best in green organization. I know people that feel best in
orange organization. And I know people that are teal. If you seek
structure and power go for orange. If you look for consensus and
friendly work environment go for green. If you want to challenge
yourself and are ready for a journey to discover yourself go for
It's not that organizations are pure orange, green, teal. There
always a mix of subcolors. Organizations can also change their
colors in time but this is a topic for another article.
Does a Scrum Master need Conflict Resolution Skills?
Going through some job offers for Scrum Masters, I couldn’t
but notice that in most of them conflict resolution skills were
expected. So here is the question: does a Scrum Master need conflict
Before we go any further, please do this short exercise. Let's
imagine that you are recruiting a Scrum Master and that you want to
check if she demonstrates conflict resolution skills. Take a sheet
of paper and for 2 minutes try to define what you would expect as an
answer from your perfect candidate for the following two questions:
"Describe a situation where you encountered a conflict situation
in your Scrum Team as a Scrum Master?"
"What actions did you undertake?"
Stop! :) don't scroll any further. Try to answer those questions
Back to my question "Does a Scrum Master need Conflict Resolution
Skills?", Well.... in my opinion probably not the way you described
[Let's continue to find out if I'm right]
For now, please answer another question: Is a conflict a bad thing?
Conflict Matrix: five conflict-handling modes
Best solutions and outcomes are a result of cooperation aiming not
for compromise but for collaboration! And conflicts are a necessary
mean to get there!
The job of a Scrum Master should be to create an environment for the
teams where they can optimize for collaboration. I like to bring up
"Safety actually means demonstrating unsafe behavior"- Gunther
The Scrum Master role is to establish a safe environment. What we
need to understand is that safety doesn’t mean peace and
harmony but actually quite the opposite, namely, an environment
where people engage more often in conflicts (owning them) leading
not to compromise but true cooperation. The goal should be to create
an environment where the team is able to resolve conflicts in
non-harmful way by themselves.
" ...Conflict is frequent because candor is safe. And that's
how good ideas turn into great ideas, because no idea is born fully
formed. It emerges a little bit as a child is born, kind of messy
and confused, but full of possibilities..."
Here is how the Scrum Master should approach conflicts with regards
to conflict escalation level:
Options for Conflict Situation Level vs Conflict: Cost &
Complexity & Escalation.
Let’s go through some examples for every conflict level.
as a Scrum Master, you should create an environment that
fosters collaboration even before any conflict occurs. Aim for the
culture of helpfulness
: get the people to know each other better, stop rivalry, solve
problems together, and help each other so the team members
interact with each other from a place of wholeness
. You can do that starting with small things like introducing Kudo
Box in your organization
, facilitating team building activities
, introducing liberating structures
, organize Mob Programming sessions
, setup tools improving remote work
; to big topics like fostering Scrum Values, working with HR on
the culture and values of the organization
, flattening the organization and going Teal
- anything that works, experiment with the goal to promote
helpfulness & wholeness.
: Create a process for the teams where they can handle occurring
and direct them to increase cooperation by bringing tensions
to the surface
. E.g. retrospective where everybody can speak up loud
, facilitate meetings improving teamwork
, introduce alignment tools like impact mapping
, engage HR in creating a 360 feedback tool
giving the opportunity to confront in a more healthy way
Help the team increase their competences that could help in a
conflict like: how to communicate
, giving feedback, conflict resolution
, teamwork, assertiveness, problem solving etc. engage HR to help
Many times, the Scrum Master should act as team coach
, being a "mirror" for the team helping them better see and spot
their behavior in order to improve and learn faster. Using
coaching tools like: listening, empowering, articulating what's
going on, open questions, powerful questions, giving feedback,
sharing emotions, visualize the room temperature, bringing up
taboo topics, be an example: demonstrate openness and
vulnerability and more.
You should avoid 1v1 coaching when dealing with conflicts. When it
pops up while coaching on a different topic, it's OK to engage.
But you should definitely not schedule 1v1 coaching aimed solely
to handle conflict. It's the role of the Line Manager! What you
should do is to coach and teach the Line Manager to acknowledge
the value of coaching in conflict resolution. It's important to
change her attitude so she starts to resist the temptation to be a
mediator or arbiter and move towards coaching and council, since
the goal is to develop proactive teams willing and able to solve
their problems themselves!
Definitely a no! It's OK to share own experience (what
worked for you), but if you want to be a professional Scrum Master
don't tell people what to do!
Do not mediate! The best thing that a Scrum Master can do is
actively do nothing! A conscious withdrawal of own projections and
"Help" deepens the problem! Just listen the person out. Mediation
is a job for HR, who have prepared procedures and needed
competence for that occasion. If that's not the case, then I would
support the Line Manager in the decision to deal with the people
who are the cause of an unhealthy escalation. It's a hard decision
but it's a right one in order to prevent toxic workplace. There is
no place for mediation in a Scrum Team!
(same as Mediate).
When you feel that that's the case, support, couch and provide
legit data for the Line Manager so she can make the right decision
! E.g. Bad apple behaviors: a “Jerk”,
“Slacker” “Depressive Pessimist” leads to
30% to 40% reduction in a team's productivity
! It's the Line Manager's job to "rescue" the team from their
frustration and misery! But it should be done the right way
Guess it's a case for lawyers!
The Scrum Master role is not to resolve conflicts but to create an
environment where people cooperate and conflicts arise as often as
possible leading to great ideas. I believe that there is nothing
that suggests that Scrum Masters should have greater conflict
resolution competencies than any other member of the Scrum Team.
What a Scrum Master should really have is great team coaching
competences to develop a team that handles conflict themselves.
Watch this scene from the movie "Remember The Titans" where the Team
Coach resists and doesn't engage in conflict resolution
What do you think? Please let me know in the comments!
This 4 guys, while introducing change [my five tips for you]
When trying to run an experiment and improve something in an
organization I always come across these four different groups of
group #1: "We can't do that in our organization!"
group #2: "You will tell us what to do to be Agile!"
group #3: "We need to figure out how to make it work for us!"
group #4: "hm../meh"
"We can't do that in our organization!"
While trying to change something I was approached by those guys many
times. When an idea is being introduced, they say
"We can't do that in our organization"
a huge list of corner cases, and reasons why it will fail
a statement that the organization is in some kind special and just
not meant to be Agile (but without justification or any valid
a panic reaction that it will break the product, the business or
slow the development considerably (but not willing to find answers
on how we could make it work)
a suggestion that they are already doing this with examples which
are actually changing the meaning of what we are trying to achieve
My advice is not to engage in trying to convince them to run the
experiment, since their goal isn't to prevent the organization from
failing, but to maintain the status quo
However, it's a very good idea to listen to them, because some of
the arguments they state can actually help you justify the
experiment, since those are usually the symptoms of the problem you
are trying to solve. Everybody around says that the project is
doomed, so we need to try out something new, anyway.
How to determine that we're dealing with the "status quo" guys and
not truly concerned employees? You will be able to observe that they
do not listen to you and just repeat same stuff like a broken
record. Also they will change the topic when presented with valid
TIP#1: When they state
"We can't do that in our organization"
while you are introducing the experiment, park that statement
and encourage them to approach you after the meeting to figure out
how we could address all the potential threats. If they are really
concerned, they will reach out.
"You will tell us what to do to be Agile!"
They are either naive that the world around can change without them
or just stating this for PR reasons so they can claim
and be a part of a potential success. From my experience, they
will change their minds at the earliest opportunity.
These guys are a great counterweight to the pessimistic
"We can't do that in our organization!"
, but if they approach you, be only a mentor and storyteller. Don't
give in and don't engage to run the experiment at their backyard
because they aren't committed to the change. Otherwise, your
experiment will end halfway as a failure.
They're typically over optimistic. They don't share potential risks
that should be addressed before running the experiment. When working
with them, you will also notice that they don't really team up with
you. Instead, they treat you as an executor or a knowledge base.
TIP#2: Ask them: "Could you please share with me what exactly did
you do since last month to improve your organization agility or
remove any wastes?". If they really want to become Agile, they will
have no problem with that question. Remember that by improve you
don't mean create more process and roles but: more value, more
purpose, more understanding, more passion, more reliability, more
"We need to figure out how to make it work for us!"
These are those guys you're looking for. Change agents that see
problems and are looking for solutions. They want to team up and
follow it through to the end. They engage with you and share
problems they see, and brainstorm with you on possible solutions.
When you are proposing improvements, they ask the
questions (only one at a time), discussing the topic until they're
confident that the experiment won't backfire and when they really
feel that it promises more benefits then potential drawbacks. You
also have the feeling that they listen to you, and you eventually
end up as friends :)
TIP#3: They are open to learn, so share interesting videos and
readings with them.
This group is rather interested in developing the product and
focused on everyday work and new technologies. They don't think so
much about the organization's ways of working and wastes in the
Monitor them since they can be easily pulled on the side of "status
Their characteristic is that they are realistic and sometimes
critical, but they never enter the never ending loop of
"We can't do that in our organization!"
, and are always open for small experiments.
Decide if it is helpful to convince them to run the experiment or
just do it anyway, since they probably don't care so much.
TIP#4: They are great in giving valuable feedback afterwards which
is helpful to determine if the experiment was successful.
A successful Agile transformation needs to be both top-down and
bottom-up. The best way to succeed is trying to find change agents
inside the organization and team up with them. Combining their
long term business domain experience with yours from other companies
can result in a really convincing strategy that can engage
management and make them support the change.
TIP#5: Don't just focus “vertically” on people above
your position but also create “horizontal” alliances
with others in the organization.
Remember you're not responsible for the success of Scrum in your
. You are only responsible to try everything possible in your zone
of control to make it happen
What's your experience with people while introducing change? Do you
have the same observations or maybe quite the opposite? What's your
strategy while introducing change? Please share your stories and
thoughts in the comments below..
How I've used Story Cubes too break ice between Teams from different
In this short article I will share my facilitation guide for a
creative Ice Breaker exercise using Rory's Story Cubes® for
teams working on the same product but in different locations.
The team I've recently joined from Krakow, Poland was visiting our
headquarters in Austria and meeting other people involved in the
development of a game we just finished. We had planned a big
retrospective and meetings related to the next important milestones.
What I needed was a way to create a safe and relaxing environment
for me and other team members, especially new ones, and those not so
comfortable in speaking English. My goal was to put our fears aside,
build relationships, focus on our goals and recharge batteries after
a long car trip. In order to achieve this, I've proposed to start
with an Ice Breaker exercise.
I was politely warned:
"But please don't force us to touch each other"
Hence I knew they probably had previous experience with irrelevant,
pointless, or poorly designed icebreakers. So in order to make it
work it had to be fun, creative and non-physical.
I've searched trainers Facebook groups and found Mateusz Kałamarz (Design Thinking Facilitator) who shared his experience with
Rory's Story Cubes®.
I only had to redefine the game mechanics to achieve what I've
intended. Finally I've created a 15 minutes Ice Breaker which served
its purpose surprisingly well.
About Rory's Story Cubes®:
"Rory's Story Cubes® is the iconic storytelling game that
fosters imagination and connection across generations."
"Rory’s Story Cubes® originated as a creative problem
solving tool for adults, way back in 2004. Rory was a creativity
trainer and coach, working with individuals and organisations to
look at problems in different ways. The idea was conceived using an
invention technique called ‘Advanced Civilisation’ (by
Ice Breaker Facilitation guide:
integrate teams working on the same product
get everyone involved 100% right from the start
help new members get to know each other
creative warm-up on the product topic
begin an interesting conversation among participants
prevent another boring meeting
4x Rory's Story Cubes® sets (e.g stories, voyages, actions,
For each participant a Facilitation guide for the Ice Breaker
exercise in A4 format.
[3min] explaining the purpose and goals of the ice breaker, giving
out handouts, introducing the Rory's Story Cubes®,
[6min] part one (pairing up and storytelling),
[6min] part two (sharing stories in a big circle).
Instructions part one (pairing up and
randomly take one STORY CUBE from the pull of 36 cubes on the
pair up with someone you know least
roll the Cube dice
your task is to learn a story from the life of your pair/mate
related to the icon on the cube
you've got 2 minutes each
(if there is still time)* roll with your pair/mate two dices and
create a story about the product you are developing basing on
those two story cubes
Instructions part two (sharing stories in a
gather in a circle with the rest of participants (next to your
introduce your pair/mate
tell what picture was on the dice
tell what story did you learn about your pair/mate
together with your pair/mate tell the short story about the
product (If you had time to create it)
Take your time to introduce Rory's Story Cubes® (they arouse
curiosity so the participants don't focus on the instructions).
It's common that participants ask the facilitator what particular
image on the cube means. Tip: Just tell them it's up to them.
When working in pairs make sure they understand the task and stay
focused, remind them about the additional task to "create a story
about the product you are developing" when they still have some
When presenting the stories in groups make sure they introduce
their pair/mate by name, and show the whole group what was their
picture on the Story Cubes.
The Ice Breaker worked really well and I received positive feedback.
We had a lot of fun, The Ice was broken and we gained new energy to
follow up with the big retrospective. I hope it will work similar
Other scenarios for the ice breaker:
on-boarding of new team members
group coaching sessions
joining new team as a Leader, Scrum Master etc.
Please let me know if this article was helpful in the comments